Skinny miserable rich bitch vs fat happy pauper

Dear Rich Bitch, here’s a question for you? Would you rather be skinny and rich but miserable? Or would you rather be fat and poor but happy? Enquirer

Dear Enquirer, that’s a very interesting question and honestly not as easy to answer as it should be.

Obviously  I should immediately reply that I would rather be fat and poor but happy, because if I said I would rather be skinny and rich but miserable I would come off sounding shallow, vain and materialistic.

However I’m not sure it would be entirely honest if I were to say I would rather be fat and poor but happy.
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Trading forex Thursday July 31st 2008

I’ve had some feedback from a reader regarding my forex trading adventures. The reader wrote among other things that it is foolish of me to be putting my money into forex trading. He told me that the first time I made the decision to pull my money out of FXCM I should have stuck with the decision; that I am clearly too unbalanced to be trading forex for one thing, and for another I obviously don’t know enough about forex trading to be trying to make money as a forex trader.

I’m not sure I can disagree with the reader on the fact that I don’t know enough about forex trading. As for being “too unbalanced”, well, he may be right about that as well; but I made the decision to go in and I will see that decision through.

As things stand I continue to lose money; but I am taking fewer chances than last week when I went in and  basically went wild. I am over the forex trading related depression. Right now I am just playing things out with no expectation of a good or bad ending. I will discover how this ends rather than anticipate or dread winning or losing.

The real rich bitch

Apparently  a real rich bitch is a condescending and superficial woman who has money and is from high society and who never lets the people around her, provided they don’t have as much money or as much standing in society, forget just how rich she is and how important she is by comparison to them.

I came across a website with a listing of some of the most notorious rich bitches in television history. You can view the list at tvtropes.org. If you’re old enough to remember the television series dynasty then you would remember the ultimate rich bitch Alexis Carrington.

Alexis and women of  her ilk are not exactly the types of rich bitch girls that we aim to emulate. We’re not interested in looking down our noses at other people. In fact we think people who look down their noses at other people are creatures to be pitied. Having money doesn’t make you better than anybody. Coming from high society doesn’t make you better than anybody.

The only part of the whole rich bitch mentality that we are really interested in is the “rich” part where we have money to be able to enjoy our lives. We don’t want to have money so we can flaunt it in other people’s faces and show off. As far as the bitch part goes, for us it simply means and not apologizing for who we are and what we have.

Rich bitch profile of the week 07-28-2008

Chu Lam Yiu youngest self made female billionaire Hong Kong

Chu Lam Yiu youngest self made female billionaire Hong Kong

There is not much biographical information to be found on Chu Lam Yiu. In fact, her name was completely unfamiliar until turning up an article on the world’s youngest women billionaires. Chu Lam Yiu hold’s the distinction, as of today’s date, of being the world’s youngest self-made female billionaire. She’s 38 and hold’s an estimated net worth of $1.9 billion according to the 2008 Forbes list of world’s billionaires released back in March 2008.

Next to figures like $22.9 billion which is the estimated net worth of Liliane Bettencourt, the richest woman in the world (as of today’s date), $1.9 billion might not look too impressive; but do check your own bank account balance before deciding that Chu Lam Yiu’s $1.9  billion is nothing to brag about. And remember, Chu Lam Yiu did not inherit any of this money, which is not meant to discredit the achievements of our previously featured rich bitch billionaire women who came into their billions by way of an inheritance.

Chu Lam Yiu has managed to reach billionaire status a good 20-something years ahead of the reported average age of 61.5 (for women) and she has accomplished her feat as the head of Huabao International, a company she herself started a decade ago. Her company makes fragrances and flavorings for cigarettes, detergents, beverages, dairy products and cosmetics.

Chu Lam Yiu ranks #652 on the world billionaires list.

Trading Forex Monday July 28th 2008

Today was supposed to be my official live forex trading start day; but as you know I was unable to wait and started last week and lost $1000, twice decided to close my account and run far and fast from the world of forex trading, and twice changed my mind about my decision.

FXCM sent me an email of tips every trader should know. The tips are from their Basic Trading Tips. The list of tips advises against pretty much every mistake I made trading last week, the biggest being over-leveraging my account. It’s interesting because I had written notes to myself not to be trading with 200:1 leverage. And I’d written notes to myself not to go against the notes I’d written to myself, but once I got in there and started trading I was like a mad woman unleashed.

Last week’s experience trading was a learning experience; and what’s scary is that I know I have a lot more mistakes to make and learn from before I get my forex trading act together.

Today I am taking it easy watching and waiting for an opportunity. Right now I’ve put aside my lofty goal of making $500 – $1500 per day. I’ll get back to focusing on that goal once I gain some confidence after trading for a month or two. Right now I need to focus more on learning and less on earning.

Rich bitch fall winter coats

Okay so it’s still the middle of summer and you’re not quite ready to be worrying about winter coats, but hey, winter will be here before you know it and it never hurts to look ahead does it? Besides, Nordstrom is holding an Anniversary sale right now and you can pick up some cute fall/winter coats at pretty decent prices.  These aren’t your typical rich bitch coats as the prices even after the sale are pretty affordable, assuming you’re making more than twelve cents per day for your 17 hours per day of work….

Image: Nordstrom.com

Image: Nordstrom.com

There’s the  Nordstrom exclusive Milly Wallpaper Jacquard Coat which the Nordstrom website describes as charming and 60s-inspired. They have it available in sizes 2 – 10. It  only comes in black.  Until August 4th you can pick up this coat for $399. After August  4th you’ll need to add $276 to the price tag. Milly Wallpaper Jacquard coat

Image: Nordstrom.com

Image: Nordstrom.com

For the plus-sized rich bitch diva there’s the Hilary Radley New York Tuck Collar Anorak This high sheen coat comes available in sizes 0X – 3X. The coat comes in blue and khaki and can be yours for just $89 until August 4th. After August 4th you’ll need to add an additional $49 to that price tag. (If you like the look of the Hilary Radley New York Tuck Collar Anorak but you’re not plus-sized the jacket does come in standard sizes) Hilary Radley New York Tuck Collar Anorak plus Hilary Radley New York Tuck Collar Anorak standard sizes

Image: Nordstrom.com

Image: Nordstrom.com

More of a cropped leather jacket rich bitch type yourself? Until August 4th you can pick up the Andrew Marc Crop Leather Jacket from Nordstrom for $399. The price after the 4th will be $625 so you’ll definitely want to grab the jacket now unless of course money is no object and $625 is your idea of pocket change. This jacket comes in the color black and the sizes x-small, small, medium and large. Andrew Marc Crop Leather Jacket

Image: Nordstrom.com

Image: Nordstrom.com

Like to wear things that come branded with celebrity names? Then you should definitely take a look at the Jessica Simpson Back Pleat Wool Blend Coat. For $178 you can pick up the Jessica Simpson Back Pleat Wool Blend Coat in black or apricot. The coat is available in sizes x-small, small, medium, large and x-large. The price tag for the coat will increase to $268 after August 4th. Jessica Simpson Back Pleat Wool Blend Coat

The featured coats are dry-clean only or professional leather clean only, so if you’re the type who prefers to just toss it in the washing machine than have to take it to the dry cleaner you might want to keep that in mind.

For more fall/winter coats and jackets from Nordstrom visit the Nordstrom website

The chew it up and spit it out diet

I shamefully admit that I used to practice a diet routine which I referred to as the chew it up and spit it out diet. The idea behind that was that when ever you felt an impulse to eat, rather than struggle with the urge, you went ahead and ate; but instead of swallowing the food, you chewed it up and spat it out being careful not to swallow any part of it, including any liquid resulting from saliva mixing with the food. Yes, it is gross.

What I find interesting is that my chew it up spit it out diet is not original. I decided on a whim today to check and see if other women/girls might use this ‘technique” and lo and behold, I discovered that the chew it up spit it out diet is a method used by anorexics.

I do not advocate getting into a habit of chewing up and spitting out food. It is a smarter idea to practice healthy eating and practice self control so that when you feel impulses to eat outside of your normal eating schedule you can control them. Or better yet keep healthy low-cal fat-free snacks handy for those times when you feel an impulse to eat outside of your regular meal times.

Trading Forex Sunday July 27 2008

I have come to the conclusion that the key to succeeding in forex trading is to understand what makes the market move. By that I mean to say  it’s important to have a good idea  of where each currency stands, not just the currencies on which you are focused but the other major currencies as well. Because changes in the value of one currency in relation to another can be affected by changes in the value of an unrelated currency.

This means that you need to be aware of what is going on with the economies of the countries that hold the world’s major currencies and you need to know what things will cause currency value to rise and fall from moment to moment and how news coming out of one nation will impact on the currency of all the other majors.

This of course will not result in trading sucessfully 100% of the time; but it will enable you trade more confidently.

In my first week of live trading I traded in a manner similar to tossing up a coin. And most of the time if I went with heads it came up tails. If I went with tails it came up heads. I lost money. Trading forex is not about gambling on odds. You need to know something about what you’re doing. You need to know why you’re buying 100,000 euros against the USD.

And if you’re just beginning to trade forex and you don’t have a lot of money in your account, don’t make the mistake I made. Don’t trade with 200:1 leverage. It’s just plain stupid.

Let’s go to Paris

Paris, often said to be the most romantic city in the world, is the capital of France located at the northern part of France near the Seine River. Paris was founded during the last part of the third century BC by a Celtic Gaul tribe called Parisii. In 508 A.D. King Clovis I made Paris the capital of his kingdom, named after the tribe Parisii. With its scenic beauties and breathtaking structures not to mention thousands of years of history and culture, Paris is now one of the leading destinations and tourist spots in the whole world. The mere mention of Paris brings to mind French cuisine, picturesque sunsets and the Eiffel Tower.

Paris is also known as ‘the City of Light’ or La Ville-lumière both because it first adopted street lighting and because it has become a center of education and culture. Other than its historic and political attractions, Paris also offers a number of tourist spots that represents its rich culture and tradition. If you are planning to visit Paris but are having doubts where to go, then this article is definitely for you.

When one mentions Paris the instant picture that comes to mind is the beautiful Eiffel Tower. The Eiffel Tower has been said to be the symbol of Paris and probably the most photographed and well-known monument in the world. The Eiffel Tower was first constructed on January 23, 1887 by the engineer Gustave Eiffel. It was finished on March, 1889 and it consisted of 15, 000 metal parts symbolizing the World’s Fair that happened on the Champs de Mars. Up until 1930, the Eiffel Tower was the tallest structure in the world measuring 310 meters top and 7, 000 tons. Currently it is 325 meters and is the tallest building in Paris and the fifth tallest structure in France. More than 200,000,000 people have paid a visit to the Eiffel Tower since its construction making it the world’s most visited paid monument. I’m pretty sure that anyone who wishes to see Paris must and will see the Eiffel Tower.

Another spot often visited by tourists is the Basilique du Sacre Coeur which literally translates ‘Basilica of the Sacred Heart.’ The Basilica was built between 1876 and 1912. It is of Byzantine design and is situated in Montmartre, one of Paris’ most beautiful districts. The Basilica offers a magnificent view of the district, the Place du Tertre and Northern suburbs.

Notre Dame de Paris, more commonly known as Notre Dame, is the seat of the Archbishop of Paris and is a Roman Catholic cathedral. It is of Gothic design located in the eastern portion of the Île de la Cité in Paris. Built around 1163 and finished around 1345, the Notre Dame means ‘Our Lady’ and is considered as one of the finest and most beautiful French Gothic structures. It is one of the first structures that utilized the flying buttress. Naturalism influenced its design with the result that stained glass and sculptures were used giving it a more secular look.

Who would not know the Louvre? Famous for being one of the largest museum of fine art in the world and lately has been made more famous by a certain literary novel, the Louvre contains more than 75,000 paintings including Leonardo Da Vinci’s Mona Lisa, Madonna of the Rocks and The Virgin and Child with St. Anne and Delacroix’s Liberty Leading the People not to mention Jacques Louis David’s Oath of the Horatii among others. It is situated in the 1st arrondissement on the Right Bank between Rue de Rivoli and Seine River. The Louvre was actually intended to be a palace when it was first erected on 1190 but through a series of historical and political events it was re-built and changed into what we see today. Who would’ve thought a museum could hold such history. Visit Louvre and see for yourself.

The Arc de Triomphe is unmistakably one of the well-known monuments in Paris. Emperor Napoleon I commissioned it in 1810 following his victory at Austerlitz. It was completed in 1836. The Arc de Triomphe was designed by Jean Chalgrin with the design inspired by the Roman Arch of Titus. It stands at 49.5 meters or 165 feet in height, 45 metres or 148 feet wide, and 22 meters or 72 feet deep. It is said to be the biggest triumphal arch that existed. The Arch symbolizes the honour that is shown to those who defended France, particularly during the Napoleonic Wars. Above the sculptures frieze of soldiers lies 30 engraved shields with the names of the major Napoleonic military and Revolutionary victories. The inner walls of the structure enumerates around 558 names of the French generals. Also lying underneath the Arc is the the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier that fought during World War I. The Arc de Triomphe is located in the famous Champs-ElysÈes.

Les Invalides is a series of complicated buildings on the 7th arrondisement that showcases monuments and museums that depict the military past of France. It also includes a retirement home and hospital for war veterans. It serves as the burial place of some of the Freanch war heroes. It is notable to include that the tomb of none other than Napoleon Bonaparte and his family lie at Les Invalides. If the magnificent architecture isn’t enough for you to visit Les Invalides, I recommend you see it because of Napoleon’s tomb.

Considered as a masterpiece in architecture during its time, one cannot help but stare in awe at the beautiful Palais Garnier. It is also known as Opéra Garnier or Opéra de Paris or Grand Opera House. More commonly known as the Paris Opera, it houses 2,200 seat and was designed by Charles Garnier using Neo-baroque style. Considered as a magnificent landmark, the Palais Garnier was inaugurated in 1875 with the official name of Académie Nationale de Musique – Théâtre de l’Opér. It was renamed in 1978 to be the Théâtre National de l’Opéra de Paris. In 1989 the opera company chose Opera Bastille as its primary theater and also chose to re-name it as the present Palais Garnier. In 1896 the counter-weight for a chandellier in the Opera fell killing one person. This incident together with the underground lake and the Opera itself inspired Gaston Leroux to write his timeless classic The Phantom of the Opera. Truly, Palais Garnier is a site to behold and a certified must-see in Paris.

Another frequently visited place in Paris is the Grand Palais which means ‘Grand Palace’. It is an exhibition hall made of large glass which is situated in the Ville arrondissement of Paris. Its exterior is a combination of the Art Nouveau ironwork and the Classical sont façade. It was initially built for the purpose of a Paris Exhibition in 1900. The Grand Palace houses in its basement a police station to serve as protection for its exhibits particulary the Salon d’Automne, Salon de la Société Nationale des Beaux Arts, and Salon “Comparaisons”. Personally, I think its rather odd that a police station is underneath an art place.

Now that you know the most exciting places to visit in Paris, you may be wondering what possible ways you can get there taking into account your alloted budget, time spent and comfort needed. Well, wonder no more as I give you some of the ways you can get into Paris and the rest of Europe. The most common mode of transportation, especially if you’re from another continent, is through plane. The largest international airport in Paris is the Aéroport Roissy Charles de Gaulle airport which isnlocated 17 miles or 27 kilometers north of Paris. From this airport you have a number of choices to transport yourself to the City of Lights and in fact to other parts of France. You can ride the TGV or the ‘train à grande vitesse’ which is a high-speed train service that gets you to your destination in no time. You can also choose from the available buses, taxis and shuttles. The second main airport is the Aéroport d’Orly located 10 miles or 16 kilometers south of central Paris. From there you can ride a bus that runs in between the Charles de Gaulle airport and the d’Orly.

If you are not from another part of the world and lives nearby you may want to check out the train service particularly the Eurostar that pases through the Channel Tunnel or Chunnel. It is by far the most luxurious way to get into Paris. The TGV is also available for you which connects you to Brussels and Amsterdam. There are other six train stations in Paris with a local rail network that can take you to the rest of Paris. Once you’re in Paris you may also take the bus, a car through the Eurotunnel, or a Ferry to maneuver your way to other parts of the France and Europe.

So you get yourself into Paris, but how will you go from one tourist destination to another and visit all the places that I have described? You may be thinking of renting a car but I highly advise against it. Unless you have lots of time to kill, walking may be the best way to enjoy Paris. Plus, its good exercise. I also advise against bicycling as they are frowned upon by the locals. Buses generally go everywhere but their hours are unusual. You are better off trying the world class, super efficient and very charming Métropolitain. This is an underground massive rail network. I suggest you choose your travel passes carefully to prevent spending too much money on transportation. A weekly or monthly Carte Orange travel pass may prove to be more convenient for you.

If you are trying to get somewhere and also have time to spare then I suggest you take the Seine river shuttle. It’s a good way to appreciate Parisian beauty and reach your destination leisurely. However, the river shuttle is not exactly the fastest way to get to your destination. Now that you know what to do, try Paris and fall in love in the most romantic city on the world.

Memoirs of a rich bitch – Virginity

Notice: This is an excerpt from a fictional novel in progress that is being developed exclusively for richbitchitch.com. This work is copyrighted. You may not reprint without permission.

Virginity is interesting. One minute you have it and the next you don’t. One day you’re innocent and the next someone’s had you and so you’re not worth the same; and it only takes a moment for you to be transformed from one state to the other. Even while lying in bed being penetrated, until you are actually popped you are precious and dear and valuable; but once you’ve been broken you are now used and no one will regard you in the same light. It was Lulu who said that to me although in different words. She said it to me the same day I met Richard Berkley. Or rather she said it on the eve of that day while she and I were lying in her bed talking about Madame Sheila’s efforts to sell my virginity. But we talked about Richard Berkley before we got around to discussing how I was feeling about having my virginity negotiated over.
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